Wisdom of the Experienced

“You can learn a great deal from those who have walked the path you are about to take or are currently traveling on. There is much wisdom to be garnered from our elders if you are willing to listen.” Man with a Plan

It is through experiencing life, it’s joys and hardships, that we develop a better understanding of how the world works, and from that, an ability to navigate what is yet to come with sound judgment and discernment. Throughout human history, it has been our elders, who were looked upon to provide knowledge and guidance, and pass along lessons from previous generations. Life is hard, and even in our modern world, living a long, well lived life, is not an easy undertaking. Such an achievement is a testament to human will and surviving the trials of life we all must face. I encourage you to talk to those who have made such a journey, as there is much to learn from them.

Below I have collected some “wisdom of the experienced” from several individuals of advanced age, that I had the pleasure of speaking with. I asked them the simple question, “what is the best advice you have ever been given, or you would give to someone.” The respondents will remain anonymous, but I hope you enjoy their insight as much as I did when speaking with them.

“Keep the faith and don’t judge.”

“Be honest and take good care of yourself. Money cannot buy health, love, and happiness.”

Take everything in stride, and don’t make too big of a deal about anything.”

“Like yourself or you can not like anything else.”

“Stay true to yourself and keep moving forwards.”

“Live the life you grew up with, it will lead to success. Love your family and help others.”

“There are no atheists in fox holes, when there is no other place to turn, turn to god.”

“You can’t do it all and you must accept the fact you can’t. Prioritize and take care of yourself, or you can’t take care of the people you love. You have to find balance and where your priorities are.”

“Follow the lord.”

“How do you survive life after losing your loved one? It is very hard. I was married for 60 years; love is what got us through.”

“Help others get past their troubles. If something is bothering you, voice it, and let it go.”

“Be skeptical of people but also hope for the best in people.”

“Do not expect your partner to be perfect, because you are not perfect.”

One theme that jumped out to me during my conversations with these lovely people, was the emphasis on self-care, and loving who you are. When you are happy with yourself, you are able to take care of those you love and help others in need. If you enjoyed this content, please give it a like and check out my previous posts, including my “Triple 20 Challenge” for more on how to live your best life. Thanks for your support.

Written by:

Man with a Plan aka Jeffrey Kalinoski